Consider this: while all orgasms feel good, not all orgasms feel the same; some feel better than others. I bet you know what I mean, right? It's no accident that you're here on a site called teasing phone sex.
Sometimes, you might need to rub one out, so you do the two-minute rub, tug, and boo,m you're done kind of orgasm. Generally, the quick wank is an option, and sometimes it's perfect for stress relief. I get it, and there's nothing wrong with that per se. But, if that's all you want, then chances are you wouldn't be on this site.
I think you're looking for more. Me too. Maybe we're looking for each other.
I've always been a flirt. It's fun and comes naturally to me. Listen to my voice tell you about becoming a cock tease. It was an accident; a very happy accident it turns out. Here's what happened. I was with my boyfriend in my college dorm room. We were making out, all hot and heavy. I stripped down to my tiny thong panties. He was wearing only a smile.
Then, we got interrupted! Damn! Talk about some bad timing! We were both so mad, sexually frustrated, and just about crazed by lust.
What's the equivalent of blue balls in a woman? I don't know if it has a name, but I'm telling you it's real because I sure was sexually frustrated, and so was he. Gradually, I realized that not being able to have an orgasm might not be such a bad thing. The excitement didn't go away. We both laughed about it. Okay, I laughed, and he complained, but the fact of the matter is that I stayed wet and incredibly aroused. His erection gradually subsided, but my arousal stayed off the charts. By the time we were finally alone ... wowza! My boyfriend lost his damn mind, and if you're like him, you will too. This experience took our sex life to a whole new level and sparked my lifelong obsession with cock control.
When I really like something, I learn about it. How many creative ways are there to play with your cock? The only limit is our imagination. I should warn you, I have a wicked imagination.
Teasing, guided masturbation, and edging fit really well in erotic roleplay scenes. If you're not into roleplay, JOI works well all on its own. For example, cock control can start with something as simple as lube: what kind of lube or even when or how to put it on. Have you ever done dry edging and then dripped warm lube slowly right on the very sensitive head of your cock? Imagine my voice telling you to do that in the context of all the other naughty things I'm whispering in your ear.
Now, I'm not throwing shade at any tried and true masturbation you usually do. We all have our 'go-to' moves. I know you know how to get off. I want you to imagine how you'll feel with some new ways to masturbate. T&D games and jerk-off instructions are fun for us both because, hey, who doesn't love games? These can be games of chance like roll the dice or flipping a coin to find out what happens next. Like I said, the only limit is our imagination.
Orgasm delay isn't just fun in the moment. You can use these sessions to build stamina and prolong pleasure for you (and your partner). I love it when something is fun and useful. The bottom line is this: teasing phone sex is fun for both of us, as you can hear this this episode of The Weekly Hot Spot podcast. Check out all the episodes, starting with this one about a Cock Stroking Challenge. Let's explore together and see what we can up with. (Pun intended.) You might whimper and beg but I promise you, by the end of out time, you'll have a big smile on your face! I know it's hard to dial the phone when you're hands are slippery so wait on the lube until you dial the phone and ask for Olivia, the Experienced Mistress.
Pass the Penis: The Ultimate Cock Tease Game
Cock teasing is not just an act. It is an art form. When a woman does it correctly, her finger is squarely on the hot button that drives a man wild with sexual energy. Teasing is a mind-blowing experience of torturous tension, delicious denial, and wild abandon.
It can drive your desire out of control. Make your twitching cock grow harder than it’s ever been. Then compel you to promise a woman the moon, the stars and everything in between. Regardless of whether it lasts a few “strained” minutes or for a number of almost unbearable hours, one thing always holds true. Whether in person or in a steamy phone sex session, the talents of a consummate cock tease mesmerizes you and always leaves you wanting more.
Sure. There are times when you’ll hear a man moan about a woman who “was nothing but a tease. ” Leaving him high and dry. And with a case of aching blue balls. For our purposes, we’re not talking about a woman who arbitrarily gets a man all hot and bothered with no intention of relief, whether in the form of a physical release or the mental rush that comes with having his gratification delayed or denied.
No. We’re talking about that woman who is a cock tease extraordinaire. One who works a cock into a hard, head-spinning frenzy and commands every last ounce of his focus and attention. Such a woman is not just toying with the man she chooses to tease. She takes taunting a cock very seriously. Whether it is in front of her, appearing on webcam or merely at the other end of the phone line.
This woman will make sure a man knows that she has purposely raised his penile flag to full mast. Furthermore, she will decide what it is going to take for him to be granted that orgasm he so wants. Or to deny it. It’s a perfect example of agony and ecstasy at play together.
The true cock tease is confident, perceptive, comfortable, and well aware of what grabs -and holds- the attention of both man and cock. Furthermore, she knows how profoundly even the most innocuous words can affect a man lost in the midst of arousal. She is an authority on just what to say and when.
She knows the power of whispering in a man’s ear. Making promises that may be certain or conditional. The electricity in the slightest touch. Understanding the direct connection between a man’s mind and his quivering cock. Your cock tease mistress is a sexual enigma. And the man, who happens to be in her clutches at any given moment, cannot help finding himself completely captivated.
The power a cock tease holds over a man is immeasurable. The one certainty is that the impact she has over a straining cock and tight balls leaves men blissfully helpless, erotically elated, and without composure. Even if he happens to think he cannot bear such excruciating pleasure, he is unable to tell her to stop. Why is that? He simply doesn’t want the teasing seduction to end.
While there is obviously no physical contact involved (aside from self-stimulation) in a phone session, this absence of tactile engagement does not at all undermine the abilities of a bona fide cock tease. Under her direction -whether soft, seductive and sensual or hot, high-handed and hardcore- you’ll find yourself all too willing to be the proverbial putty in her hands.
She will find your buttons and push them. Moreover, she will skillfully zero in on the finer points of those fantasies that set you ablaze with lust. Your cock tease mistress will discover your triggers and manipulate them in ways that send a constant jolt of erotic electricity throughout your body, prompting your hardness to ache like never before.
You are so enraptured with her voice and directives that you are happy to obey her every order. Whether she is guiding your hand as you masturbate, forbidding you to touch yourself or having you integrate other activities into your stroking session, you can be guaranteed that your cock will be hanging on to her every word.
The sensations are so divine that you become lost in them, never wanting them to stop. And you -at least temporarily- forget about the end goal of all this teasing. She takes you to that edge of orgasm over and over again. You do not want to slow down or stop. But you cannot disobey her.
When you place your masturbation directions in the hands of a superlative cock tease, do you want her to eventually push you into that abyss of orgasmic ecstasy? Or, on the other hand, allow her to make her own call as to your ejaculatory fate? Maybe you want her to deny you a release, regardless of how much you beg and plead?
Where do you want your relentless edging to lead? Whatever the outcome, you can best believe that a phone sex cock tease will take you there in ways you never dreamed possible.